DIY Cow Electronics Case!!

Cow Case 

Time: 10 Minutes

Materials:
1. White case (I got mine from Amazon for like $5)
2. (Black)Duck Tape (Also Amazon for $4) or black tape that is thick and wide
3. clear glitter nail polish (optional) (Walgreens for $0.99)

Directions:
1. Cut duck tape into desired cow spots and place them on the case. Smooth down the tape so it's completely flat (My duck tape was easy to peel off since I messed up)

2. Optional: Paint clear glitter nail polish on top to help the duck tape stay in place..and makes it glittery!! :)

3. Let it dry for about 5 minutes.

4. ENJOY! that's was super duper easy.

What Girls Really Mean when they...

My bestieee showed this cute thread to me and it's soo super true!! Do as it says and you'll definitely win the key to any girl's heart :)

FWD:

When she stares at your mouth

[ Kiss her ]

When she pushes you or hits you

[ Grab her and dont let go ]

When she starts cursing at you tryin to act all tuff

[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]

When she's quiet

[ Ask her whats wrong ]

When she ignores you

[ Give her your attention ]

When she pulls away

[ Pull her back ]

When you see her at her worst

[ Tell her she's beautiful ]

When you see her start crying

[Just hold her and dont say a word ]

When you see her walking

[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]

When she's scared

[ Protect her ]

When she steals your favorite hat

[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night ]

When she teases you

[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]

When she doesn't answer for a long time

[ reassure her that everything is okay ]

When she looks at you with doubt

[ Back yourself up ]

When she says that she likes you

[She really does more than you could understand!!]

When she grabs at your hands

[ Hold her's and play with her fingers ]

When she bumps into you

[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]

When she tells you a secret

[ keep it safe and untold]

When she looks at you in your eyes

[ dont look away until she does ]

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let her go

- When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her

- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid

- Give her the world

- Let her wear your clothes

- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.

- Let her know she's important.

- Kiss her in the pouring rain.

- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is;"Whose ass am I

kicking baby?"

How to ask that oh so special..STRANGER out

Have you ever walked down the street and spied a really hot guy or girl from the corner of your eyes? Or perhaps your first encounter with that special stranger is when you accidentally knocked her books out of her hands or ran into his friend and spilled a drink on the hottie because you were too busy staring at his fabulous body?

Well here are a few tips to get the ball rolling. A. You shouldn't knock over her books, you should knock over her coffee so you can ask if you can buy her a new cup or better yet, knock her lunch or dinner over and invite her out to replace her lost meal. Creepy? Maybe a little, but hey girls, it's a free meal! I'm just kidding, you can offer, but start off with some basic conversation, like "I'm soo sorry, how clumsy of me!" Get to know her a little bit more, establish a non-creepy connection and then BAM, ask if you can take her out for lunch or dinner because you just feel oh so terrible about spilling her food.

The spilling the drink on hottie is easy...whew, you got his shirt off already! and you guys haven't even been out on a date! Or at the very least if he's modest, you can wipe off some of the strawberry smoothie off with your bare hands for closer contact or a napkin, if you feel hate getting sticky like me! The chances that he'll offer to buy you a drink is slim, since he already has yours on him..but you can ask if he (and his friend) would want to go grab another smoothie with you, your treat of course for the mishap!

If none of those incidents have ever happened, A. make sure they do or B. continue reading.

If you get to the smoothie shop and you spot a even hotter hottie behind the counter, buy the drink for not-so-hot-hottie (you don't want to go back on your word) and strike up a conversation with hotter hottie(HH). (Or you're starting off with no hotties at a coffee shop)You can ask HH what he or she would recommend, what his or her favorite flavors are and that can lead to future conversations, like "hey I tried the drink/food you recommended and it was fantastic!(LIE if you have too) We must have similar taste, we should go test it out at a different restaurant" BAM, date. Or if you don't want to be that forward, you can try connecting with her more and find out if you actually have things in common before asking her out. Perhaps, if you get there near closing time, you can say something along the lines of "hey my friends and I are gonna go try this yummy new ice-cream place around the corner, do you wanna go join?" This makes it a bit more causal and less awkward for everyone.

Lesson 6: Jealousy: A Green-Eyed Monster or Real Love?

JEALOUSY: AN EMOTIONAL RESPONSE TO A REAL OR PERCEIVED THREAT TO A VALUED RELATIONSHIP.
     We've all been there. At one point in our lives, we've been jealous of someone--or possibly something. Whether it be our siblings, friends, peers, boyfriend, girlfriend, or TV for whatever reasons. Is jealousy a good thing or is it a feeling people should never experience? Is it destructive or is it beneficial? In this post, I will attempt to answer some questions about jealousy in a romantic-love relationship.
    Some level of jealousy is functional in a relationship. Sometimes it encourages someone to think about an intimate relationship and look for constructive ways to help the relationship grow. However, when jealousy becomes too intense, it can become an issue and may even lead to abuse or violence in an intimate relationship.
    Therapists see jealousy as a self-defeating emotion; but does it really matter what therapists think?? However, they make a good point; jealous people just make themselves miserable by constantly worrying about what their partners are doing and it just makes the whole relationship tense. The jealous partner is often insecure about losing their significant other, which is why they react so drastically and try to control the relationship, which may drive the other partner away.
    So...if we can't control our jealousy what do we do? Well, first make sure you have your own issues all figured out. If you have low self-esteem, try and figure ways to feel better about yourself because your boyfriend or girlfriend loves you for who you are, and you being jealous isn't going to keep them closer, but staying true to yourself and trusting your partner will help your relationship grow and bloom like a flower! :D You can't control how your partner behaves, but you can control how you perceive a certain event. For example, if you think your significant other flirts a lot..maybe he or she doesn't..maybe he or she is just really friendly and open to everyone and you have to be ok with that. If you often feel jealous because of what happened in your past relationships..DON'T. Start fresh and give your new partner a chance and trust them. You have to open yourself and can't let the past dictate your present life. It may seem scary at first, but let go of the past, in order to live in the present!
    IF it is impossible to not feel jealous sometimes, just follow the tips below to make sure the Green-Eyed Monster doesn't destroy the love and bond you have with your partner:
1. Confront the jealousy and talk about it with your partner (Jealousy is a sign that there is a problem and it      should not be ignored.)
2. Discuss how much each person is committed to the relationship and wants to maintain it overtime. If both of you would like to continue your relationship, then
3. Talk about ways that you both can work together to build a closer and more intimate relationship.

So, that was a short blog on what jealousy is and kind of why people feel jealous. I hope the tips help tone down the jealousy and if not, make sure to TALK TALK TALK. Communication is SOO important in a relationship. Without it, a relationship won't work, no matter how much love there is. Comment if you have anything to add :)

Lesson 5: How to Save $$$

Below are a few tips that my Marriage and Families textbook suggested on how couples/families can save a couple of bucks! The ones I chose to put down work for individuals as well.

1. Don't buy on impulse: Know what you're looking for and don't buy anything you really don't need (I have problems with this one..because I think I NEED what I WANT haha--whoopsies)
2. Avoid buying on credit: High interest rates credit cards charge can double the cost of an item. Think REAL hard before buying anything on credit..is it really worth DOUBLE of what it was originally or should you wait until you have REAL PEOPLE money?
3. Buy at the right time: Of course if a brand new model of something just came out yesterday, it's gonna be a bit pricey! If you wait a bit, the price will go down and the quality will still be the same. SO..do you really need it NOW? Or can you wait a couple of months and save $$$? THINK about this one, though it's tempting cuz others have the newest versions and models. What you save can end up going towards a future purchase..that's like TWO things for the price of ONE--HOW EXCITING!! Also, watch out for sales, but don't buy something just cuz it's cheap...another Whoopsies for me..I think cheap is GOOD! haha..but watch out for QUALITY (not quantity).
4. Don't pay extra for a brand name: As tempting as it is to tromp around with designer jeans and brand name jackets..do you really NEED to? Generic items are often as good and usually cheaper..just remember to look for QUALITY, if it's worth it, then go for it!
5. Recognize that convenience costs money: Local stores might cost more $$$ because they're RIGHT THERE and they know that. So..if you don't need something right away, wait till you can go to another location that's cheaper.
6. Question the need to go first class: Do you really need the "best"? Can you really afford the most expensive version of a given product or service?

Lesson 4: Styles of Conflict Resolution

How do most people resolve their conflicts? Below are some different styles; you'll probably recognize of them but I've also included the advantages and disadvantages of each style.

Styles of Conflict Resolution:

Competitive: Pursuing personal concerns at expense of others (I win, you Lose)

Collaborative: being highly assertive in regard to reaching one’s goals while also showing great concern for the other person.               

Disadvantage: 
1.burn out on relationships because they invest so much energy into resolving conflict.

2.Good collaborators are powerful and sometimes use strengths to manipulate people.

Compromise: intermediate style btw aggressiveness and cooperation

Advantage: more direct than avoidance/reinforce relationship is one btw equals

Disadvantage: favors easy “formula”

Avoidance: avoiding conflicts by changing the subject or w/drawing
A: gives avoider time to think if good will come from fight/whether others can manage fight
D: conveys avoider doesn't want to deal w/ problem, puts problem on back burner, reinforce that conflict is bad, should be avoided, usually sets stage for further conflict

Accommodating: Involves nonassertive and cooperative behaviors
A: giving in and being reasonable when accommodator is in wrong

D: reduce creative options; sacrifices genuine dialogue; produce resentment and desire to get even

All these styles have their own advantages and disadvantages, not one is better than the other, as long as different styles are exercised. So remember to balance between each style- depending on the situation!

Which style do you tend to use more the most and is it typically effective? Please comment and share!

Where's my Snow?!

So, all through last night in San Francisco, it was pouring rain and the trees were swaying like CRAZY. I thought there was a good chance that I might just possibly DIE. But it was ok, because I thought it was all in preparation for SNOW. So, as you can all imagine, I was disappointed after being kept up ALL night by the pelts of rain (and possibly hail) against my window and the ANGRY roar of the wind, I woke up to bright SUNSHINE. SUN?!?! Really? Where did you come from?! How did the weather change so drastically during the last 3 hours when I finally fell asleep? But, most importantly, WHERE'S MY SNOW?

I was so soo ready to break out the rainboots (for I have no snowboots) and playing in the snow and maybe building a snowcow or two. As I'm typing this, the sun is peeping through my blinds, mocking me. Yes, the sun is MOCKING me. Why does the weather channel have to play tricks on me? Don't get my hopes up for nothing, that's like snatching candy away from a little poor innocent kid.

Where's my snow? All I wanted was to build a snowcow and perhaps kill two birds with one stone and get my daily dose of exercise. Is that too much to ask for?

Perhaps, I will be optimistic and hope that the snow is still coming. Although, I have never seen Mr. Sun gleaming as brightly and happily as he is right now. Does that mean snow's not coming?